[lima-kilo] fix start-devenv.sh bug
- refactor start-devenv.sh so we can rerun the script without recreating VM.
- refactor kind role:
- kind.yaml.j2 [plugins."io.containerd.grpc.v1.cri".registry] refactor to undeprecated format
- move node configurations to vars/kind.yaml
- move /etc/docker/daemon.json to daemon.json.j2 template
Bug: T378180
Signed-off-by: raymond-ndibe rndibe@wikimedia.org